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New medical test can tell paternity earlier than ever

In a breakthrough that could hasten establishing paternity and put an early end to paternity disputes, researchers said they now can identify a baby's father months before birth. The method could have significance in medical and legal work that could affect residents of St. Louis and the rest of the U.S.

The newly developed method uses fetal DNA in the mother's blood to determine paternity as early as the eighth week of pregnancy, according to a report in the New England Journal of Medicine.

Man accused of killing wife on verge of divorce

It is no mystery that divorce can be a very emotionally charged event. Often times, emotions can run so high that divorce begins to intermingle with an ugly corner of family law -- domestic violence. At that point, men or women not only have to worry about the legal side of the divorce, but also measures that they must take to ensure their own personal safety.

A recent tragedy in Missouri shows signs that this might have been the case.

Father takes ailing son from his mother in Missouri

Family law judges ultimately determine the most appropriate setting and guardian for a child and grant child custody agreements based off that decision. Whether or not both parents agree with it, it is the law and they must honor the agreement.

One Missouri family thumbed their nose at the child custody arrangement for a 5-year-old boy, who suffers from a heart condition called cardiomyopathy and is on the waiting list to receive a heart transplant.

Prenups should be considered helpful, not hurtful

Prenuptial agreements have long been a high-profile aspect of marriage for St. Louis couples and have evolved significantly over time. This agreement is used to bring stability to a relationship if it falls on hard times and eventually ends in divorce. A prenuptial agreement takes the guesswork out of property distribution as the agreement determines the fate of assets even before a couple enters into a marriage.

Part of the evolution of this agreement has been with public perception. In the past, many people saw a prenuptial agreement as a sign that a husband and wife did not have faith in their upcoming marriage so they already started to plan for a divorce. As time has shown how useful prenuptial agreements can be, there is growing to be less cynicism around them and more emphasis on their functionality.

Paternity suits: Anyone can get a bad rap

Missouri residents who are fans of rap and hip-hop music likely have detected a reoccurring theme within the content of songs. Dubbed by many in hip-hop circles as 'baby mama drama', rappers often tell tails of facing paternity lawsuits. While this issue is often shrugged off, it is very important. While we see many women come forward to claim that a famous rapper fathered their child, this is not an issue confined to that one demographic. Not just famous performers, but many ordinary residents, face these allegations daily.

On the financial side, establishing paternity of a child will determine who is responsible to pay child support and in what amount. Without establishing paternity, many men can be tricked into paying child support for years when they do not have to. On the flip side, some men might refuse to pay the child support that they are supposed to.

Getting from divorced to dating again

Understandably, divorce can be a confusing and stressful time for men and women in St. Louis and around the rest of the country. Divorce presents a big adjustment period in which men and women must learn how to navigate life as a bachelor or bachelorette again.

This period also presents a time of reflection for former husbands and wives to look back on their marriage and remember some parts fondly and others not so much. Some might even remember the positive experiences and wonder if they made a mistake in getting a divorce. These are all natural feelings and it is important to let them run their course. No one faults a divorcee for having to take the time to emotionally digest what just took place.

Tips for a healthy co-parenting arrangement

It's no mystery that sharing joint custody of a child or children following a separation or divorce can be both tricky and stressful. In order to provide a healthy environment for children, the estranged parents have to implement clear communication and work together to be consistent with their methods.

If a child experiences one lifestyle while in the care of a parent and a different lifestyle with the other, it can cause development problems. This is a tough task when parents separate on bad terms. To adopt an effective co-parenting strategy, parents need to put their petty differences aside and focus on what is best for the child or children.

Missouri officials revisit state's Safe Haven Law

Lawmakers in Missouri are scrutinizing state laws that new mothers must follow in order to relinquish child custody without being punished. Some proponents for changes to the existing statutes say that the current laws could scare parents and make them hesitant to follow them because they do not understand how the law works.

The law in question is Missouri's Safe Haven Law. Like similar laws throughout other states, mothers can give up custody of a baby by leaving it at a location with qualified caretakers, such as a fire house or hospital. In order to relinquish child custody, the new mother must turn over her child within the first five days of his or her birth. These laws state that the mother can maintain her anonymity and would not be prosecuted for her actions.

Missouri lottery winner neglected to pay past due child support

Running outside of state lines to skirt child support obligations is a futile effort. Law enforcement from all over the country continually work together to bring those to justice who fail provide the greatly need financial support for their children.

The authorities in Ozark, Missouri taught one 22-year-old man this lesson the hard way. Police in that area arrested the man, who is known by many as the son of a British fugitive, for not paying his child support. Even though the man was arrested in Missouri, the warrant for his arrest was issued in Wisconsin.

Society's take on love and divorce

On a weekly basis, couples in Missouri and throughout the rest of the United States file for divorce. This is generally prompted by unhappiness in a relationship that lacks fulfillment. Still, many divorcees cannot help but feel a little frustrated or that something is wrong with them. Based on views portrayed in the movies, television and other avenues of mass media, love is an undying, magical thing.

These misleading messages put forth by mass media can have a potentially detrimental effect on marriage, divorce and the men and women involved. According to many movies and television shows, being single is not hip. Often, single individuals are portrayed as the odd man or woman out, while movies and shows are often centered on individuals who have found love. These constantly reoccurring themes could pressure single men and women, who are desperate for acceptance, into a relationship or marriage even when they are not ready.

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